It has been all over the news and the center of a lot of heated debate. Should a 60 year old woman be allowed to become pregnant?Â
Now I have mixed feelings about this subject. For one, this is America, the land of the free. You are supposed to be able to do anything you want to do. If you want to go out and get yourself pregnant, and you are actually able to get pregnant, then that is you constitutional right. No one should be able to tell you otherwise (Of course there is the freedom of speech, which allows everyone else to put her down for it if they so choose).
There is also the fact that if God gave her the ability to get pregnant at her age, then maybe she should be able to have those kids. Maybe He wanted her to have them. He made it possible for her to have them. Now there is the point that she went to a clinic in some other country to have herself artificially inseminated. This is not really natural, so some would argue that God did not give her the ability to get pregnant, Man did. Others would argue that God gave man the ability to create ‘the way’, so she is justified.
It is obvious that she was able to get pregnant at her age. One may wonder, though, did she think it through whether or not she ’should’ get pregnant? Did she realize that she is going to be 78 years old when her children graduate college? Did she think about her grown daughter who realizes that she is going to have a more parental role in these childrens’ lives rather than a sister role. I honestly don’t think that she did.
I feel that she got pregnant to fulfill some kind of self need. She was probably feeling lonely or seeing others with babies and wished that she could have that again. Maybe her daughter had not yet brought her grandchildren. Whatever the case may be, she brought two new children into the world who are going to have to rely on the kindness of others when their mother’s health starts to fail. They may even be forced into foster care if their mother becomes unfit to care for them or, God forbid, she dies.
I think she made a poor choice, but there are two new children in the world, and it is the world’s responsibility to welcome them with open arms, despite what their mother has done.